Work has been busy so I haven’t had time to do much as far
as posts go. This is a good thing/bad
thing. It’s nice to be busy once again –
which is good, but then I don’t have
time to do posts for blogging, which I’ve gotten used to doing again so that is
bad. But both my care coordinators are
off doing other things so I have some free time.
Not only that now, but my fellow worker bee who was supposed
to work this upcoming weekend from 12 to 8 has managed to get trapped in
Scotland an extra day so I said I would work the day for her. I may have time in the evening as it’s not
really that busy on the weekends after 6:00 pm or so. And as I kept telling her – take a large
suitcase with holes in it so you can bring Jamie back in your luggage. She’s a real fan of Outlander too. She said she would do that – but she would
keep him and not share. Maybe now she
will.
I love visiting All About Romance. Years and years ago when I thought I was
alone in my obsession with romance books I happened to come across this site
and discovered that low and behold, I “had people”.
There were indeed others who were as nutty
about the genre as I was. There has been
many an interesting discussion on the boards there and one of the recent ones
that caught my eye was authors who blow up HEA’s. And one thing just about all romance readers
consider sacrosanct is the HEA. As a
writer of romances, the worst thing they can do is mess with the HEA.
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The happy end is an essential part of the
whole experience of reading a romance book.
I’ve seen over the years a few ‘new-to-the-genre’ speculate that maybe
it’s not so necessary, that maybe we, the readers, should be a bit more bendable
on the issue. But for the true romance
fan, that just is not an option and woe betide the author who messes with it.
I’ve had a lot of bad stuff happen to me over the years and
I expect that almost every single romance reader can say the exact same
thing. It’s a very rare thing to skate
through life with no pain. Romance is
our oasis, our escape from whatever might be hurting us and to mess with an HEA
is like the oasis just being a mirage when we believe we’ve reached it after a
long and painful journey. So don’t mess
with it.
I'm not proud to admit this, it's my dirty little secret but I watch soap operas once in a while to de-stress when I get
home from a hard day at the office. Though often they have the
opposite effect, they raise my stress level at the end of the day. But I’ve come to the conclusion that they are
anti romance. They appear to be very
similar on the outside, beautiful women, handsome men, lots of passion and
love. But when you see the inside they
are everything we are against in our romances.
Adultery rules the day.
Marriages, even the ones that would appear to last forever, end. Children are raised with a sense of
entitlement and worst of all EVIL triumphs every time. Luke and Laura, Bo and Hope, Steve and Betsy,
Victor and Nicky, Erica and any man – none of them worked. The main ones I watch, when I watch them
these days, are The Young and the Restless and The Bold and the Beautiful. There isn’t a person I can route for in
either of them. Victor never gets his
just desserts, Brooke continues to sleep
with her mother/daughters/sisters fellas.
Hypocrisy abounds and any kind of loyalty/friendships dissolve when it
comes to lust. So why do I watch them
every so often? I don’t know – I really
can’t answer that question. It makes no
sense that I watch something where every single character is sleazy in some
shape or form.
I have a whack of reviews I’ve been working on too – so they
will be up next.
‘til later.
2 comments:
Oh the sanctity of the HEA!
I'm still amazed at people who defend killing off one of the protagonists (JR Ward, I'm looking at you). Yes, I get it, she's the author and can do (and will do) whatever the hell she wants--and I'll feel however the hell I want about it!
Do keep us updated on how the Jamie-smuggling operation comes out, please! (and share pictures ;-) )
Nobody's saying you can't write a non-HEA. Write away! Just don't call it a romance novel and don't market it as a romance novel. The only reason these writers WANT to market it as a romance IMHO is because it's a blatant money-grab. They know romance readers read a ton of books, BUY a ton of books and now promote a ton of books via social media. They want a piece of that.
Honestly these kinds of conversations make my head hurt. You never see mystery writers going, "You know what's holding me back? Having to solve the mysteries in my books! I AM AN ARTISTE! I CAN'T BE RESTRICTED IN MY ART!!!!" Sigh.
Re: Soap Operas. I grew up watching Y&R and B&B. When I was in college I had a roommate who got me hooked on One Live to Live and GH. So yeah, I watched FOUR soaps in college. Oh, and I was addicted to Melrose Place and watching Dallas reruns. Once the career got into full swing I ditched soaps in favor of romance novels, but whenever my Mom comes to visit I end up getting temporarily sucked back in. Even with the bed-hopping and constant divorce, I find the format comforting. And where Y&R has succeeded for me over the years is that you can literally not watch it for 2 years, then come back to it and still know some of the characters. Yes, Wendy still has a crush on Smilin' Jack Abbot - although his current storyline sounds completely Crazy Pants.
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