tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10897259.post6651345988809573704..comments2024-03-27T03:28:56.209-04:00Comments on Ramblings on Romance Etcetera. Etcetera: Kristie (J)http://www.blogger.com/profile/15743921647882733738noreply@blogger.comBlogger31125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10897259.post-5194170977393457892009-01-21T14:12:00.000-05:002009-01-21T14:12:00.000-05:00I agree with everyone else that it's good to talk ...I agree with everyone else that it's good to talk about it. Getting it out here is a great way to start and I think you'll be surprised by the number of people who suffer from the same thing - or a variation.<BR/><BR/>I've been suffering through my own form of depression lately. I think a lot of it has to do with finding myself without a job for the first time in...too many years. I wonder if yours isn't a result of the colder weather.I know I used to suffer from depression in the winter when I lived in South Dakota. Not being able to go out as often and the lack of sunshine really do make a difference in your mental health. <BR/><BR/>We're here for you babe! ((((HUGS))))Hollyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01182390014214738550noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10897259.post-62989313254534062362009-01-21T08:43:00.000-05:002009-01-21T08:43:00.000-05:00{{{{Kristie}}}} I haven't been around for the las...{{{{Kristie}}}} I haven't been around for the last several days but I do want to comment and let you know I'm thinking about you. I think you're very brave for facing your fears, and for talking about them. It can't be an easy thing to do, but you're doing it. I know you're going to be okay. You have A LOT of people who truly care very much for you, and we all want to do whatever we can. Never forget that, 'k? Love ya.Stacy~https://www.blogger.com/profile/14919278697757441246noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10897259.post-13118528790694716802009-01-19T20:11:00.000-05:002009-01-19T20:11:00.000-05:00hey girlie girl - its moi!! alison!! (i know-im ex...hey girlie girl - its moi!! alison!! (i know-im excited just saying it)lol im ready to beat anyone up (preferably at work) how bout we head out for a beer or sumpin like that after work sometime?? i could use it and i know you could too......c u tomorrow at work...yippeee!!<BR/><BR/>smooches - ali<BR/>ps - hang in there sunshine, things HAVE TO get better!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10897259.post-54929141463958421022009-01-18T22:09:00.000-05:002009-01-18T22:09:00.000-05:00Isn't it all just a sneaky bitch? As vigilant as ...Isn't it all just a sneaky bitch? As vigilant as I try to be it can be months before I realize my anxiety has taken over again.<BR/><BR/>I'm sorry it's gotten so bad. I hope the counselor gets you in quick so you can start to heal.<BR/><BR/>Hugs<BR/>CindySCindyShttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18349459903336460467noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10897259.post-25877301277111162622009-01-17T09:32:00.000-05:002009-01-17T09:32:00.000-05:00Hey Kristie,I'm so sorry to hear about how you fee...Hey Kristie,<BR/><BR/>I'm so sorry to hear about how you feel!<BR/><BR/>Just wondering, does your depression happen more in fall and winter? Is it possible there's a seasonal element (SAD - Seasonal Affective Disorder)? My mom uses light therapy to help lift her mood. Also, I've heard, tho' you can't tell by me LOL - that exercise, even getting out (brrrr) for a walk is good. What is true, is that it always lifts me up when I get out for a walk.<BR/><BR/>Do you like video games? And if you have, have you ever seen Wii? Believe it or not, Wii Fit is a blast! Exercise that's fun!<BR/><BR/>As for work... would it help to tell a supervisor or manager (whichever applies) what you're going through, and that you are taking active steps to get back on track?<BR/><BR/>If you like music, have you thought of singing karaoke? Strange as that sounds, it's fun and it lifts your spirits and you meet the nicest people at karaoke! I go out almost every weekend, and when I don't I have friends in to sing (we've got our own machine)<BR/><BR/>I'm thinking of you, Kristie... keep taking active steps to lift yourself up!<BR/><BR/>DonnaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10897259.post-10701404643541000882009-01-17T00:03:00.000-05:002009-01-17T00:03:00.000-05:00Big hugs to you. I'm humbled by your courage.And a...Big hugs to you. I'm humbled by your courage.<BR/><BR/>And a good therapist is worth their weight in gold. I hope you find an excellent one. They're pretty amazing. And you are too.Katehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09314153391153507955noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10897259.post-66216072790403222902009-01-16T21:59:00.000-05:002009-01-16T21:59:00.000-05:00Kristie, I swear I thought a lot of what you've me...Kristie, I swear I thought a lot of what you've mentioned was just the result of reaching a certain age. Kind of like menopausal brain chemistry changes that we just have to live with. It never occurred to me that there could be another reason. I say this because I seem to be going through some of what you are, just not to the same extent or degree.<BR/><BR/>BTW, one thing that has lifted a HUGE weight off my shoulders is doing my banking on-line and setting as many bills as possible up on auto-pay or at least on-line payment. I even make sure to keep a higher balance in my checking account instead of putting extra in savings because the peace of mind is worth losing a few bucks interest. Seriously, just doing that got rid of a whole lot of my sense of overwhelm.<BR/><BR/>In any case, {{{HUGS}}} to you. Get the help you need, get the real life support you need, and know that you've got a whole lot of on-line support right here too.Bev(QB)https://www.blogger.com/profile/03571585694956752892noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10897259.post-26569232612426705082009-01-16T21:28:00.000-05:002009-01-16T21:28:00.000-05:00right there with yah honey, hope you feel better s...right there with yah honey, hope you feel better soon hon<BR/><BR/>if it makes you feel better it took me 49 days (I know this cuz my mom counted) to turn in my change of address <BR/><BR/>she wanted to know if that was my way of trying to pretend that I didn't HAVE TO MOVE WITH MY PARENTS RIGHT BEFORE I TURN 33<BR/><BR/>she might have had a point<BR/><BR/>le sigh, of course I am still not opening most of the mail... baby steps hey but I haven't had any seizures or black outs since nov 16 *g*<BR/><BR/>get better babe no matter what we will be here, always ;)sybilhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11342302708116383329noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10897259.post-9303408180122003652009-01-16T20:20:00.000-05:002009-01-16T20:20:00.000-05:00I'm so glad you are getting help! That is definite...I'm so glad you are getting help! <I>That</I> is definitely a first step out of the overwhelming cycle.<BR/><BR/>Also, there are non-profit agencies that assist with helping getting financial affairs in order. About 10 years ago, drowning in credit card debt, we were able to get debt counseling that really helped us out. (Consumer Credit Counseling Service was ethical and a godsend.)<BR/><BR/>I hope you keep us up to date with you you're doing. There are obviously a lot of people around here who care!<BR/><BR/>((hugs))Reneehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07026384330126049496noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10897259.post-34755367009828735952009-01-16T16:02:00.000-05:002009-01-16T16:02:00.000-05:00Kristie, I am sure at some point in everyone's li...Kristie, I am sure at some point in everyone's lifetime they have experienced the same thing you are currently going through. I know I sure have. The words <B>overwhelming</B> and <B>despair</B> definitely bring to mind how I felt a few years ago. I think it is very good that you are going to counciling. It will help you get down the the root of the problem. Know that you are not alone and you CAN get through this.Jill D.https://www.blogger.com/profile/10994157783980931093noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10897259.post-56519264443182475422009-01-16T15:14:00.000-05:002009-01-16T15:14:00.000-05:00I so glad you made a phone call and are getting th...I so glad you made a phone call and are getting the help you need. I suffered for years from a depression and I understand your symptoms completely. I feel your pain. Keep us posted on how you are. We all care about you and want what's best for you. {{Big hug}}Tracyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05320961506471746567noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10897259.post-72733749610463145722009-01-16T14:28:00.000-05:002009-01-16T14:28:00.000-05:00As always, I'm in awe of your inner strength (and ...As always, I'm in awe of your inner strength (and yes, you have it in spades!). Hang in there, do what you need to do to be healthy and happy. We're all here for you.Lorihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08250972350798310498noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10897259.post-36188139797507199202009-01-16T11:10:00.000-05:002009-01-16T11:10:00.000-05:00I'm not going to be as eloquent as everyone else -...I'm not going to be as eloquent as everyone else - but yes, go talk to someone. You need to talk to someone. If only to get it all "out there." Best of luck to you chica!Wendyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12485867264936716806noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10897259.post-53977261631687323952009-01-16T10:29:00.000-05:002009-01-16T10:29:00.000-05:00I think it's great you're taking steps. May you be...I think it's great you're taking steps. May you be granted the strength you need to fight through to the other side.Ann Aguirrehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09076423626210129278noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10897259.post-81473961725938625312009-01-16T08:53:00.000-05:002009-01-16T08:53:00.000-05:00Oh, Kristie, I hope you feel better soon. That is ...Oh, Kristie, I hope you feel better soon. That is so cool and brave of you to see what you need and take care of yourself like that.Carolyn Cranehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17195853833116263029noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10897259.post-71973760393418731762009-01-16T01:42:00.000-05:002009-01-16T01:42:00.000-05:00You aren't alone and are absolutely correct when y...You aren't alone and are absolutely correct when you say there are lots of people all around us suffering in silence or with laughter.<BR/><BR/>I love you Kristie. You make me so proud.Rosiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15868327419940314643noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10897259.post-68945740200533875702009-01-15T23:27:00.000-05:002009-01-15T23:27:00.000-05:00((Kristie)) I think its really great that you've p...((Kristie)) I think its really great that you've picked up on some recent changes in yourself and have already reached out for some help. That alone supports the fact that you are a strong woman and won't go down without a fight! I have confidence that you can work through this and get to a better place. <BR/><BR/>I also think it's wonderful that one of the reasons you wanted to publish this post is because you wanted <I>" . . . to let others know that depression can affect anyone – even the most seemingly cheerful of people. "</I> This is so very true and I think it's simply inspiring that you've brought your own personal struggle to the forum of your blog in hopes of educating and helping others. I hope writing this post was a little therapeutic for you as well. <BR/><BR/>Lots of love,<BR/>Christine <BR/>xoxoChristinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00420773211895134710noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10897259.post-72260181431468899642009-01-15T21:53:00.000-05:002009-01-15T21:53:00.000-05:00*hugs* I know and I've been there. And you ARE d...*hugs* I know and I've been there. And you ARE doing the right thing by proactively seeking help. It may take little steps one by one, but it will get better. You should definitely feel ok about blogging your feelings. That's what a journal is for. <BR/><BR/>Hang in there and keep pushing forward. We're there for you. :)sulahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05470361085886637371noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10897259.post-73040546288447239652009-01-15T21:40:00.000-05:002009-01-15T21:40:00.000-05:00(((Kristie)))If and when you feel like it, know th...(((Kristie)))<BR/><BR/>If and when you feel like it, know there are many here who understand where you are.<BR/><BR/>I'm keeping you in my thoughts and prayers.aztecladyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14857872357667370906noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10897259.post-75373712786718862202009-01-15T20:37:00.000-05:002009-01-15T20:37:00.000-05:00It's a huge step to take, acknowledging you're at ...It's a huge step to take, acknowledging you're at a point where you need to ask for help. And you've asked for it. Good on you. I send you every good wish and hope things start improving very soon.Kerryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01829070558793881064noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10897259.post-51700072500520104882009-01-15T20:35:00.000-05:002009-01-15T20:35:00.000-05:00Much hugs and kisses.Much hugs and kisses.KT Granthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15958121742156171756noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10897259.post-46954171291272120512009-01-15T19:38:00.000-05:002009-01-15T19:38:00.000-05:00Big ((((hugs)))). You're in my prayers, Kristie J!...Big ((((hugs)))). You're in my prayers, Kristie J!AnimeJunehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18229748454410488167noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10897259.post-57010082511033120752009-01-15T18:27:00.000-05:002009-01-15T18:27:00.000-05:00Kristie, listen up, it's the middle of friggin...Kristie, listen up, it's the middle of friggin January and it is un-friggin American not to be depressed in January & February. These months were created to suck your soul & spirit out, why?, I do not know, it's just the way of the world. I'm in a major deep freeze outside of damn Cleveland and it wouldn't matter if it was sunny and 60, it's still January (& damn Cleveland for crying out loud) and it sucks! I've upped my Wellbutrin dose but I won't be better until April 1st, that's just the way it is. <BR/><BR/>Take it day by day, that's all any of us can do and be extra good to yourself, you deserve it!PeggyPhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14754377668555438816noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10897259.post-57940678842399938272009-01-15T18:21:00.000-05:002009-01-15T18:21:00.000-05:00(((((Kristie)))))(((((Kristie)))))C2https://www.blogger.com/profile/08260556835414082481noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10897259.post-14887274978794471922009-01-15T17:31:00.000-05:002009-01-15T17:31:00.000-05:00I am only someone who has "run into" you on the we...I am only someone who has "run into" you on the web, but I still want to send positive thoughts and prayers your way! I think you are on the way to beating this. You are facing it, talking about it, going for counseling, and possibly changing medication. You can have your own little support group here. Have you thought about getting a pet? If you are a believer in God, have you thought about getting involved in a church? Do whatever it takes to take care of yourself because you are worth it. <BR/><BR/>Hugs! :-)<BR/>Cheryl (aka Cheri)cheryl chttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09518179090170838046noreply@blogger.com